I have heard this over and over. At various times in my life, it really hit home. Lately, it has been stabbing me in the heart.
The past year and a half I know my growth journey has deepened and elevated. I am growing in areas I didn’t even know existed! I am constantly raising my vibration and frequency!
Guess what? When that happens, the result is the (harsh) truth that not everyone is on the same frequency (aka page) as you, and you could lose your connection. No one is at fault or to blame, you are simply on two very different paths. Not all relationships experience this…but some do.
If you are new to exploring your vibrations & frequency, trust me, I know this seems like it is impossible to (ever) happen! I used to agree with you (and on some level am still in denial). But I have watched people who were in my life for 15+ years fizzle out and fade away. My heart says, “whoa this is harsh” yet my soul says “well, this is to be expected, it is NOT easy, it is O. You have to mourn the losses, but you also have to LET GO!”.
I am in a phase of growth and elevation. I am not the same person I was when a lot of these relationships were forged, yet I truly believed they were life long relationships and it truly hurts to be wrong. At this point, my only option is to let it go and keep growing and attracting a new tribe.
While this may sound negative on the surface, it isn’t, it is raw, and it is truth. This is my acceptance of what is and my process of letting go (I thought I had a blog on this, but, I clearly need to write one!) of what was.
I am also over the moon grateful for the new relationships I am creating!! And, the new people I am attracting!
Many (many) months ago I saw a meme that said something to the effect of “stop “watering” friendships and see which ones still grow and find out what weeds you were watering”. At first, I really fought this idea. I have always felt like I was the friend who kept things going, kept checking in, kept making plans, etc… Organically, my life got busier and busier, and I was not able to sustain my level of “being the one to keep the communication going”. I watched some relationships fizzle…
I am a huge believer that people come into your life for a reason, for a season, or for a lifetime. What I learned is that a season could feel like a “lifetime” but may just be a long season. And, you can keep attracting new people into your life, that doesn’t make your past long relationships mean any less!!! THIS was a golden nugget for me to learn!
While this post may sound negative on the surface, it isn’t. This is my acceptance of what is and my process of letting go of what was! I am letting go of relationships that can no longer exist and celebrating the relationships to come! Back in April I posted a blog about the beauty and challenges of transformation…and I touched on some of this….
This is truly my raw heart mourning the ending/changes of what used to be truly amazing friendships but welcoming with open arms the new friendships I am creating! I appreciate you for being on this journey with me!