For those of you who know me IRL you KNOW I am a big bold personality. It has always been who I am. I still remember Carol (my bestie’s mom saying “well, Christine isn’t your quietest friend”. When I walk into a room people notice – this is not meant to be a cocky statement just factual statement. I am me and I make ZERO excuses for who I am….you can take me or leave me. I don’t BS and I shoot straight. I am kind and loving. I am driven! I am tenacious!
So, I decided to give online dating another try. I am trying my hardest to keep an open mind. In 2019 my social life has taken a major backseat, and I work a lot (all the time) so I felt online dating would maximize my efforts! I am trying to keep it positive and be super open minded.
Well…I am coming to realize I am just too much for some guys. I am extremely independent. I am driven. I have goals. I am VERY into personal development and growing into a better version of me. I love Jesus and walk a walk of faith. I am building a freaking empire! As I chat with more guys I am realizing THIS is just too much for so many of them. And I am 100% OK with that!
Strange, a few (or several) years ago I would have taken it so personally that I am too much. But today I make no apologies for who I am. I am me! I am a sassy, tenacious, Jersey Girl building and empire and designing a life she loves! I will NOT settle – not in any area of my life!
Tonight I want to say cheers to all of YOU who are too much for some people! To all of YOU who are designing a life you love! To all of You who are working on becoming a better version of yourself!
I trust God’s plan with all of my heart. And He will match me with someone I am not too much for! Until then I will embrace the journey and keep and open mind!